Girl Power! (?) Or is it supposed to be Woman Power?

A friend of mine forwarded the following prose to some of our female colleagues the other day.

It's fun, and I really wonder how far along true is this? I can totally relate to the facts / opinions illustrated.

How do you react to them?

Heheheh... I guess the same can apply to "Boys Vs Men" too (not Boyz To Men).

*can't stop smiling and grinning*

Girls vs Grown Women

Girls want to control the man in their life.
Grown women know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling.

Girls check you for not calling them.
Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn't..

Girls are afraid to be alone.
Grown women revel in it-using it as a time for personal growth.

Girls ignore the good guys.
Grown women ignore the bad guys.

Girls make you come home.
Grown women make you want to come home.

Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.
Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits.

Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.
Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.

Girls try to monopolize all their man's time (i.e., don't want him hanging with his friends).
Grown women realize that a lil' bit of space makes the 'together time' even more special-and goes to kick it with her own friends.

Girls think a guy crying is weak..
Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue.

Girls want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so.
Grown women 'show' him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate,without fear of losing his 'manhood'.

Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
Grown women know that was just one man.

Girls fall in love and chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, IGNORING all 'signs'.
Grown women know that sometimes the one you love, don't always love you back-and move on, without bitterness.

Girls will read this and get an attitude.
Grown women will read this and pass it on to other Grown women ^_^

A Chance Encounter with Fate

Allah itu sememangnya Maha Segala-galanya!

Dia Maha Mengetahui segala apa rahsia yang ada di langit dan bumi, baik yang tersurat mahupun yang tersirat, baik yang jelas kelihatan tanpa terselindung ataupun yang tersembunyi kemas daripada pandangan manusia biasa.

Dia Maha Mengetahui segala hikmah atas setiap satu kejadian yang menimpa dirimu, insan.

Dan Dia juga Maha Mengetahui apa yang kamu ketahui malahan apa jua yang tidak kamu ketahui.

Allah is All-Knowing, Allah is Al-Mighty!

For in the entangled webs you call Destiny, therein lies His Wisdom - the wisdom of which He lends to you so generously so that you may learn and be wise in Life.

For when He denies your wishes or desires, it is always for your greater good.

For even when you are in dire need of a soulmate and He does not answer your prayers, He will lend you enough wisdom to understand that it was never meant to be.

Or at least that was how I felt when I saw my ex-crush today. A chance encounter with Fate, I must say, and with Destiny playing the fool in the background.

But I really understand now why things happen the way they were and why Allah did not let me win over him.

Simply enough, I was not fascinated nor charmed by his dim-witted words just now - how could I ever stand to be surrounded by that for the rest of my life? More than that, his indifference towards me? Huh! Like I care! Seriously? Come on lah...

It really is amazing how Allah teaches His beings sometimes - bringing sense to where there was none.

I'm just very grateful and thankful that I am among the ones who choose to listen, think and comprehend.

Alhamdulillah....